Shared Direction
How well you understand and support the future you are building together—while making room for both people’s goals.
A private reflection for two people building a life together
Your relationship is always giving you information.
The Same Team Assessment helps you notice what is working, where your experiences differ, and which conversation may help you grow together.
✓ Private responses✓ Inclusive language✓ No partner required
7dimensions
Belonging
Repair
Direction
Aliveness
Understanding
Equity
Adaptability
Two people. Two perspectives.
One relationship.
One relationship.
Why this matters
When one person changes, the relationship changes too.
A new job, a dream, caregiving, money, health, family, or a change in who you are can ask the relationship to become something new. This map helps you notice what the relationship is already showing you—and meet that change with more curiosity.
How it works
Private reflections.
One shared map.
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Choose your way in
Start the shared path and invite your partner when you are ready, or begin solo.
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Reflect honestly
Rate 30 clear statements across seven dimensions. Your raw answers stay private.
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See the relationship together
Get a useful solo next step or compare two real perspectives in one shared map.
Seven parts of your relationship
Seven parts of the life you’re building together.
Felt Understanding
Whether each person feels heard, known, and emotionally understood—not merely advised or problem-solved.
Conflict & Repair
How you handle disagreements, pause harmful cycles, take responsibility, and reconnect afterward.
Power, Labor & Equity
How fairly decisions, responsibilities, sacrifices, time, money, and invisible work are handled.
Identity & Belonging
Whether both people can be fully themselves, keep their differences, and still feel accepted in the relationship.
Desire & Aliveness
The presence of affection, play, curiosity, enjoyment, and enough individuality to keep the relationship feeling alive.
Pressure & Adaptability
How well the relationship responds when work, health, caregiving, family responsibilities, or other circumstances change.
The Seven Dimensions · 1-hour live workshop
Request information about upcoming workshops.
Phillip introduces the seven dimensions, explains how they work together, and helps you identify one useful place to begin. Attend individually or with a partner. No public disclosure is required.
- Understand the theory behind your relationship map
- Learn how strengths, strains, and differences interact
- Leave with one practical conversation to try
About Phillip
Curiosity changes what a relationship can see.
Phillip helps partners become more curious about what is happening between them. He listens for the assumptions, shifts in energy, and repeated moments that can be easy to miss—and helps people understand what their relationship may be asking for next.
Learn about Phillip →Begin with curiosity